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Vintage pinup girl by Alberto Vargas.
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i had this dream of doing this with my Best Friend…
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Wilmer Angleterre non traditionnelle, ca. 1970
Here’s another image that i wish would’ve happened when playing football with my Best Friend back in middle/high school… i came close a time or two, but never had the courage…
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Her Anxiety Is Your Problem.
Let’s be honest, girls have anxiety. Studies have shown that women have a higher likelihood of having anxiety and have it more severely than men. And if your girl has panic attacks, they can devastate her.
It’s your responsibility to help her avoid them. So let me give you an example of how I dealt with my girl’s imminent panic attack last night.
My girl dances for a major ballet company where I live, and it’s Nutcracker season. She had a major part in front of a huge audience last night, and she mentioned that she felt like she wanted to run to the nearest exit.
So I took her by the arm and literally dragged her to the nearest private bathroom.
When we got inside, I said, “put your nose in that corner and breathe deeply until I tell you otherwise.”
She was confused. She didn’t understand why she was getting a time-out. But, being the submissive little thing she is, she complied with a sheepish, “yes, Sir.”
She stood in the corner for two minutes. Every time I didn’t see her breathing deeply, I just commanded, “breathe deeply, I said.” As the seconds passed, I kept gently reminding her, “I’m still here.”
At the end of four or five minutes, I commanded, “face me.” She spun around.
Her face was colorful again. Her panic attack had been averted.
“It’s gone?” I asked.
She nodded with a smile.
Just because she has an affliction, doesn’t mean she has to handle it herself. On the contrary. When she has any kind of issue, particularly anxiety, it’s the man’s job to bring her down to earth.
That’s your job. That’s why you’re the man and why she’s the girl.
-VIS
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More Structure = Less Stress.
So your traditional girl is stressed to the max? Her anxiety is climbing, she’s having a difficult time dealing with everything going on in her life, and it seems like she may fall apart at any moment.
It’s your first instinct in such a situation to relax the rules and broaden her boundaries, but that would be a huge mistake. At times like that, your girl needs more restrictions to feel safe.
When her world starts spinning out of control, the only real safety net she knows is that the boundaries and rules you set upon her give her comfort.
For example, let’s say you’re talking to her while she’s in a stressful situation and you give her a piece of advice. She replies, “yeah.” Don’t let that go. Call her out on it.
“It’s not ‘yeah’, little girl,” you remind her. “It’s ‘yes Sir’.”
This is called protocol. How your girl addresses you and the formality with which she responds restricts her language and her thoughts.
When her thoughts are restricted, she can’t overthink. When she can’t overthink, she can’t get overwhelmed. And when she can’t get overwhelmed, it’s easier for her to face the task at hand.
To your girl in a difficult situation, more structure = less stress.
-VIS
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